I saw this on a blog and wanted to share as it really comforted me through my loss yesterday and I think it would do the same for those who have lost a baby as well:
IN HIS ARMS
My dearest little baby, my dearest little flower,
The time of your departing, was my darkest hour.
I longed to see and touch you, I longed to hold you close,
I dreamed of counting fingers, and all your little toes.
I dreamed of what we'd name you, and the joy that you would bring
To your brother and your sister, oh how they'd laugh and sing!
For there is nothing quite as precious as a brand new little life,
And nothing quite as empty, when it's takes eternal flight.
Others think I'm mourning over such a little thing,
"We'll have plenty more and our lives are still the same."
But what is greater than life? And what is deeper than its loss?
Is it not what Jesus gave us when He died upon the cross?
Life is the greatest of all gifts, life is the greatest of all joys,
Life is ever so much more than just another girl or boy.
And so our lives are NOT the same, they never will be again,
Because we'll never know or see, all that might have been.
If you had come into the world and lived life to the full,
Perhaps you would have stopped another shooting at a school,
Or maybe you would have been the one to find a cure for cancer,
Maybe you would have found that long and sought for answer.
Of course the Lord can still choose to use another way,
But maybe it would have been you, who on earth can say?
But no, they never stop to think of what you might have been,
As life is not highly regarded by our modern man.
They move on and they forget. The unborn never gets a thought,
They say things without thinking and crush a mother's heart.
It's amazing how you've changed me, and for that I have to smile,
I'll not soon forget the lessons I've learned through this great trial.
I'll use it for God's glory and to bring others comfort too,
It wouldn't be this way at all, if it hadn't been for you.
I'm so glad God gave me a glimpse, as painful as it's been,
For I see His unseen hand, and I trust His master plan.
I'm so glad you're in His arms, though I'd rather have you here,
But it won't be long until I'm there, holding you my little dear.
© Ashley Plourd