The Power Of Words To Hurt And To Heal
Have you ever heard the expression: "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me." Is this really true? Of course words will not break your bones or hurt you in a physical way, but can words really harm and hurt a person? Let’s see what the book of Proverbs says.
What damage can words do according to Proverbs 11:9? ______________________________________
According to Proverbs 11:11? ____________________
Do you think you would be hurt if someone pierced you with a sword? _______ Can the wrong kind of words hurt a person (Proverbs 12:18)? _______ (It’s possible for a person to speak daggers!)
According to Proverbs 16:27, in the lips of the ungodly man there is as a _______________________ (scorching) fire. A fire brings destruction everywhere it goes (think of a forest fire). So also the words of the ungodly bring destruction and ruin wherever they go!
Who is the person who has destruction and comes to ruin (Proverbs 13:3)? __________________________
What causes a fool to be destroyed and trapped (Proverbs 18:7)? _______________________________________
Not only can words harm and hurt, but they can also help and heal.
The tongue of the wise is _______________ (healing)Proverbs 12:18
A wholesome tongue is a ___________ of______Proverbs 15:4, and this tree brings forth good and healthy fruit!
Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, ________________ to the soul, andProverbs 16:24
_________________ to the bones.
As honey is to the taste, so good words are to the ears and to the soul!
The lips of the righteous ______________ many.Proverbs 10:21
The lips of the unrighteous constantly bring forth GARBAGE, and who would want to feed on garbage? But the words that come forth from righteous lips are healthy and wholesome and good for the soul!
Can you think of any time in your life when you have been helped and strengthened by someone’s words? Have you ever been encouraged or cheered up by someone’s words? Have the words of concerned people ever kept you out of trouble?
How can a person keep his life according to Proverbs 13:3? _____________________________________
How can a person keep his soul from troubles (Proverbs 21:23)? __________________________________
Every believer needs to guard his mouth. It is like the gates of a city. If the gates are well guarded, the city is safe!
What should the believer’s prayer be (Psalm141:3)? ___________________________________________
What is another good prayer that the believer can pray (Psalm 19:14)? ________________________________________________
Words are very powerful, whether for good or for evil. May God help us to use the powerful weapon of words for Him!
Take my voice, and let me sing
Always, only for my King.
Take my lips, and let them be
Filled with messages from Thee.
~ FRANCIS RIDLEY HAVERGAL